Dear friend,

This month of October I want to focus on some tips to support the quality of your intimate relationship. If you do not want an intimate relationship you may know of someone who can benefit from it and you may want to share it. If you are one of my “Heart Men” it can be very supportive to you. 

To succeed in an intimate relationship, the first thing you need to know is that intimacy is a CHOICE and a PROJECTION of your own intimate relationship with yourself!

Many of us go after an intimate relationship full of memories from the past, demands and fears before we are ready to offer our overflowing fulfillment and happiness to our partners. We end up in resentment, a boring intimacy, a power struggle relationship or loneliness.

Many of you don’t know how the Masculine and Feminine in you and your partner play out and how complementary and essential they are to each other. It is important to know how to go from being a whole and complete being by yourself, with masculine and feminine energy in you, to being a whole and complete ‘intimate relationship being’.

Tip 1

Make sure you understand the dance of the Masculine and the Feminine in yourself and CHOOSE what you want to offer before you engage with an intimate partner.

Why?

Because to engage in intimacy (polarity) requires the conscious understanding of CHOOSING what polarity you want to play out.

As you know the number one relationship you have when you choose consciousness is the relationship with your own Self. To know yourSelf is to know real peace, fulfillment and happiness and from here it is much easier to enjoy an intimate relationship than from not knowing who you truly are and how the dance of ‘attraction-creation’ works. Once you know and heal your own Masculine and Feminine aspects in you, you then can consciously, choose what feels good for you to freely offer to your intimate partner.

In an intimate relationship, I personally choose to develop and offer my Femininity. This strong intention and pull I felt (and feel) was in total conflict with the ‘conditioning’ I got from my mom and ancestors, who suffered a lot from men and the unconscious masculine. We all ended up not trusting our man and not knowing how to heal and unfold the natural TRUST and DEVOTION to the Masculine that comes from the Feminine we all have in our true Hearts.

From my experience with Arne (21 years committed) I can say that the growth, joy and fulfillment of our relationship is taking a great expansion and depth of real love and deep trust when I personally ‘understand’ myself, my needs and desires. When I know how to come back to fulfillment and choose to offer him my Feminine being with total authenticity. This requires a powerful trust and surrendering to my man, something that is taking me years to heal, allow and enjoy.

So now you know: “Make sure you understand the dance of the Masculine and the Feminine in yourself and CHOOSE what you want to offer before you engage with an intimate partner”.

Resources:
Doctor Monica’s Coaching the Feminine Way
David Deida’s work
Dr. Pat Allen’s work

If you have comments or questions, please let me know so I can respond to you and write about them.

In Service and Gratitude,
LOVE, Monica

P.S. If you sense the importance of our Awakening Journey, please share with your friends and family. Many people are suffering today and our life journey can be much easier than what many people are experiencing. Thank you!

Thank you for being part of my world.
If you need support, I would love to serve you with…

  • Coaching The Feminine Way Private Sessions….
  • VIP Coaching Day Dedicated to you and your moment in life….
  • Feminine Presence Workshops To discover, nurture and Celebrate Your Feminine Essence and to Discover Your Goddess which is very particular and has very concrete ways to trust, show herself, nourish, flourish and share herself with the world….
  • 10 Days Intensive in Costa Rica with Unlimited Breath, Arne Rantzen and Doctor Monica…
  • Creative Questions Cards, for you to enter into the New Feminine Way of thinking, where Masculine and Feminine brains are balanced…
  • Prosperity Consciousness. I felt the call to manifest Financial Freedom in my life and realized that it is all about consciousness, all about releasing scarcity, fears and limitations, to open up to the flow of Abundance and Prosperity in all areas of your life.  Check our free weekly Master Mind for conscious entrepreneurs or contact me to support you with your financial journey!

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In Service and Gratitude,
Doctor Monica & Arne

 

 

Here we are, middle of October and very excited about Life and fulfilling intimate relationships.  

Now that you know that to be in an intimate relationship is a choice and not anymore a need or obligation, you can bring light to your own decision about if you are more comfortable offering your Feminine or Masculine self to your intimate relationship.

To consciously offer your Femininity to your Masculine man means that you choose to support him, to respect-nurture-acknowledge him, to trust his guidance and direction, etc. instead of arguing, competing or diminish him with your own masculine energy.


Let say that you, as a woman, choose to be the masculine polarity in your intimate relationship. It is perfect, there are many “Feminine Man” that can enjoy your masculine direction and can support you in your worldly success. You only need to make sure that you can enjoy a “feminine man”, a sensitive-nurturing-passive-receptive-responsive man.

TIP

If you choose to experience “attraction” in your intimate relationship, PRACTICE TO CONSCIOUSLY OFFER your Femininity or Masculinity to your intimate partner.

Be patient and gentle, A TRUE INTIMACY IS A POWERFUL SPIRITUAL JOURNEY.

Take the time to know yourself and polarities and be gentle when healing the wounds and old understanding of what Masculine and Feminine essence are and how they complement each other.

For example, in my case, in intimacy I used to engage from a very masculine perspective. I was terrified of the masculine and could not trust and relax enough to offer my Feminine self. I had the idea (and experience) that you can’t trust men, they are weak and superficial and they are not here for me. I am sure you can imagine the kind of man I attracted and perceived.

I can share with you that the Arne (my life partner) I perceived 20 years ago is not the same as the one I enjoy today. From seeing him very “feminine”, sensitive and open hearted, (something I needed to heal myself and wounds) with (from my perception) a lack of masculine clarity-driven-direction-provider-side, to perceiving him today incredibly masculine, wise-deep-protective-provider-directional and totally in love to my Feminine side. For sure our “attraction” is growing and my happiness to be the Feminine partner is flourishing. I finally see the man I know I can deeply trust, love and surrender to.

I hope this sharing can inspire you to support yourself in this powerful choice and journey we call intimate relationship because it is a CHOICE AND A POWERFUL SPIRITUAL JOURNEY.

In Service and Gratitude,
LOVE, Monica

P.S. If you sense the importance of our Awakening Journey, please share with your friends and family. Many people are suffering today and our life journey can be much easier than what many people are experiencing. Thank you!

Thank you for being part of my world.
If you need support, I would love to serve you with…

  • A FREE Exploration Session! New to my work? Register for your free Exploration Session on the right side of this page.
  • Coaching The Feminine Way Private Sessions….
  • VIP Coaching Day Dedicated to you and your moment in life….
  • Feminine Presence Workshops To discover, nurture and Celebrate Your Feminine Essence and to Discover Your Goddess which is very particular and has very concrete ways to trust, show herself, nourish, flourish and share herself with the world….
  • 10 Days Private Intensive in Costa Rica with Unlimited Breath, Arne Rantzen and Doctor Monica…
  • Creative Questions Cards, for you to enter into the New Feminine Way of thinking, where Masculine and Feminine brains are balanced…
  • Prosperity Consciousness. I felt the call to manifest Financial Freedom in my life and realized that it is all about consciousness, all about releasing scarcity, fears and limitations, to open up to the flow of Abundance and Prosperity in all areas of life. Check our free weekly Master Mind for conscious entrepreneurs or contact me to support you with your financial journey!